This is how "Not-bitchy" I am:

My ex. He's as interesting as a sack of gravel... and just about as smart. He's getting married soon, and I care not about the details. However, it's important to note that I am not going to foot the bill for some homely girl and her kids to surf the internet.

So maybe I'm a little bit biased...
But I worked so damn hard to remodel that house. Out of work for a couple of months back in 2003, I went through seven gallons of primer and paint -- just in the livingroom! 9 rooms remodeled and painted, total. And someone else is enjoying the fruits of my labor.

But here's the thing... he never changed the electricity out of my name. He also did not change his loan out of my name. Nor did he get his own internet access. So I gave him a month's notice, and then I'm going to cancel all of those services.

It might also be worth noting that my car loan was in his name (since I was not working when we bought the thing)... so I could be cutting off my nose to spite my face here. But think of it this way: I have the title of the car in my name. He can't take it from me as long as I'm paying for it.

And I can have his electricity shut off the night he returns from his (ugh!) honeymoon.

(evil grin)