Truth, honesty, and Drama drama drama!

Thanks to all of my friends, for your sage advice on telling the truth to my dates. Rainbow-boy never returned my message regarding the lack of chemistry between us. And if he ever reads this, which I doubt because he would have no idea that it is about him, "I'm sorry that I didn't tell the truth the first time"....

Saturday was a busy day for me. My date with Pilot was at 6 am - he changed his whole day's schedule around, just so that we could meet for coffee. Nice guy, great Puppers (a Husky) and very friendly.

At 8, Choo Choo Charlie and his friends dropped by my office and we went for coffee again. That boy is still giving all of the signals of being totally into me... even though he contends that we are just friends.... But come on let's be honest.... The chemistry, the karma that we both feel when one another's presence is undeniable. But it is hardly fair that he get jealous when I date others... he's still engaged to a Russian and has a lot of other baggage. Anyways, Charlie BBQ'd last night with friends, and it was a fun hang-out. His friends are a hoot and they really think I'm alrighty, too.

Enough drama already!

M.W. called after midnight last night. He and his psycho-lady friend spent the weekend in Tahoe, and I was pissed off that he had exercised such poor poor judgment in getting involved with someone so obviously messed-up as this woman. There have been so many warning signs, and that is just what he has been telling me! So the midnight phone-call.... she did go psycho last night. And they broke up this morning. But I think they'll get back together because he, like me being involved with my ex huband, loves her manic side enough to make excuses for the Psycho and take the risk that the remainder of his living years are going to be freaking miserable (much like the decade-long struggle with my ex was).

My goal toward M.W. is to give him the facts about loving someone who is crazy. But ultimately he will be the one to ignore twelve hard-earned years of experience on my part. And I refuse to enable a good friend acting like a love-fool. I'd love to say that I believe M.W. can extricate himself. But after only a month he's allegedly "in love" it's going to be anybody's guess as to the outcome here. May the Lord watch over him.

--Dot.