The Sad Little Birthday part II: A Sad Little Party

It was sushi. On a Monday night. With 5 women, two of whom he dated, two more who he wanted at one point or another, and one friend from h.s. who is about the most annoying woman on the planet (think: aggressive, self-important real estate agent). All of the guys canceled.

We had fun. I was the only one who knew any of them. These ladies had never actually met one another. Isn't that strange?

Anyhoo... Othello dropped in and we walked a couple of miles after returning home. Then ice cream. It made me sad because he was so great at making my birthday awesome last year (as I made his), even though there were bad problems in the relationship.

So by 10:00, he was all alone, at home. Lying in the bed that he made for himself.


Not that it needs to be spoken, but I was in my bed, all alone, as well.

Hillary Clinton Needs a Reality Check

I'm not sure why she keeps saying that same thing about Obama. But here are the facts:

1) She disenfranchises the "ordinary" Americans whom she pledges to be so "in touch" with, because of her nonsensical lies, her liar husband, and condescension.

2) She criticized Obama for his association with Rev. Jeremiah Wright, when she well knew that when she and her philandering husband were going through tough times... Wright was the person they called in to counsel them!!!

Clinton is a band-wagon jumper. She appears to perceive what the public wants to hear, and then says it, regardless of what she's really going to do. And can you imagine listening to that voice for 4-8 years? OMG.... noooooooooooooo!

Blast from the Past - Welfare Red Part Deux

Somewhere around the New Year, Welfare Red emailed me to ask if we could be friends. He said "I want my Dotty back"...

Uh.. dewd... you never had me to begin with.

So Red started by explaining all of the crap he and his ex-current-soon-to-be-ex went through, was going through, etc. But he never stopped long enough to realize he shouldn't really contact other women when he is practically married to someone else.

Anyhoo.... it was tragic and I told him that I couldn't possibly be friends with him, since LaMar and I were doing so well and we want to have a relationship of integrity and respect and love.

It was just funny-weird, that's all. Poor guy.

The Sad Little Birthday

I ran into Othello today at the gym. He asked me if me and LaMar would be interested in coming to his birthday party this month.... Othello wanted to re-create the party that I made for him last year.... I was touched. But over half of the people there were my friends, not his. And plus... I'm not going to drag LaMar into that.

That would be like Othello inviting his ex, Stephanie, to my birthday party... and that's not gonna happen... How many times did I tell Othello that I abso-friggin-lutely hated the idea of her, that I never wanted to hear her name again? So why would I do that to LaMar, I ask thee?

Poor lil' guy. I feel sorry for him. Lonesome and lonely and broken. My fondest wish is for him to let the barriers come down and actually feel life for a change. He could live a happy life like that.... I pray that he lets someone in before it's too late.