There's this website called "RateMyProfessor".com Since M.W. is a professor in his spare time, he is also rated. With only three ratings, everyone seems to be loving his classes. He's so excited when they give good comments.
My problem? There is a "just for fun" hotness factor that the students can enter about the appearance of said prof. Two of the girls called him cute, or a "cute little man"... which he is. It makes him happy to think that other people (was going to say women, but maybe it's men?) think he's cute, smart, etc. He is.
There was a time when all he cared about was whether I thought he was cute, smart, etc. He always called it "showing off for my girlfriend". Am I wrong to feel a little threatened? It's like I am losing his attention. I loved it when I was his focus and he would rush back from class on his break to tell he he loved me via phone.
Topic #2:
I'm jealous of all couples in a long-term relationship. I'm unusual, but definitely the marrying sort of girl. If, after two years of dating, my boyfriend turns out to be the not-marrying sort of guy... shouldn't I just give up? He won't change, will he?
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OK, I had this really long comment to post and then blogger went down and it didn't post.
Basically I had said not to worry about the first situation (regarding him liking others thinking he's cute, etc.) I'm sure it's just stroking his ego. Give him a little vote of confidence or something maybe?
The situation regarding marriage, I think if you are wanting to get married it should be discussed. I mean, you wouldn't want to waste a few years of your life thinking that he might ask you to marry him when in fact he doesn't want to get married.
I'd say, you should talk to him about both though. Get things off your shoulders, and know just what he is thinking of marriage.
Shelley is a genius. Listen to what she says. Seriously.
**hugs**
Happy Birthday Weekend Joie de Vivre!
im an old guy, if someone as caring and wholesome as you gave me two dates I would marry her (and proceed to make her regret it) There is a match for you that fits in all the dimensions of your personality and desire.
This one won't marry, you have to be strong enough to make the move that will put you in a relationship that leads where you want to go.
I just stopped by to say Happy Birthday, and look what babbled out!?
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